使用 jQuery 实现日期选择联动及校验

<form class="container">
  <select id="day" name="dd">
    <option selected disabled value="day">Day</option>
  </select>
  <select id="month" name="mm">
    <option selected disabled value="month">Month</option>
  </select>
  <select id="year" name="yyyy"><option selected disabled value="year">Year</option></select>
</form>

const isValid = (year,month,day) => {
  const date = new Date(year,month,day,15,0,0,0)
  return date.getMonth() === month && date.getDate() === day; // valid date
};
const getLastDay = (year, month) => new Date(year,month+1,0,15,0,0,0).getDate();


$(function() {
  const $year = $('#year');
  const $month = $('#month');
  const $day = $('#day');
  const date = new Date();
  date.setDate(15); // arbitrary, but not 1 
  $month.append(
    Array.from({
      length: 12
    }).map((_, i) => {
      date.setMonth(i);
      return `<option value="${i}">${date.toLocaleString("en-US",{ month: "long" })}</option>`;
    })
  );

  const endYear = date.getFullYear();
  const years = [];
  for (let i = endYear, n = endYear - 110; i >= n; i--) years.push(`<option value="${i}">${i}</option>`);
  $year.append(years.join(""));

  $day.append(
    Array.from({
      length: 31
    }).map((_, i) => `<option value="${i+1}">${i+1}</option>`)
  );
  const $days = $day.find("option");

  $('#day, #month, #year').on("change",(e) => {
    const month = +$month.val();
    const year = +$year.val();
    const day = +$day.val();
    if (day === null || month === null || year === null) return; // nothing selected
    if (isValid(year,month,day)) return; // ok date 
    const lastDay = getLastDay(year,month)
    if (day>lastDay) $day.val("day"); // reset
    for (let i = lastDay; i<=32; i++) $days.eq(i).prop("disabled",i>lastDay); // toggle disabled
  })
});

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